Terinspirasi kekuatan cinta dari film Vow membuatku jadi pengen tulis. Keren banget walaupun hilang ingatan, mereka berhasil mengembalikan cinta mereka dengan memulai dari awal. Cinta memang tidak bisa dipaksakan, kalau memang suka sampai kapanpun akan suka dan itu g bisa direkayasa.
Hmhm jadi berpikir mengenai perasaanku. Iseng-iseng kugoogling lah mengenai tanda-tanda kita mengasihi dia. Eh yang muncul semua tentang mengasihi Tuhan. Kata mengasihi memang lebih banyak yang ditujukan kepada Tuhan. Kugantilah keywords-nya tanda mencintai pasangan. Eits pilihan yang muncul memang menunjukkan kalau biasanya kita egois. Kenapa begitu? Jawaban yang muncul kebanyakan tentang bagaimana mengenali perasaan pasangan, bagaimana tahu pasangan kita setia dan mencintai kita. Sedangkan yang kucari bagaimana saya tahu mencintai pasangan. Akhirnya setelah lama berkutat dapatlah 1 artikel yang agak dekat-dekat walau ditujukkan untuk membuktikan pasangan, tapi bisalah kubalik buatku : cara mengetahui pasangan tuli mencintai kita hehehe. Hasilnya walaupun pikirku rada gokil, tapi bagus juga membuatku semakin melek bahwa cinta itu bukan hanya perasaan nyaman, senang, cemburu dan jenis perasaan lainnya. Tetapi cinta adalah komitmen. Ingat kembali kalimat dari Kak Iis waktu retreat dengan topik LDS, untuk mengkaji apakah kita adalah pasangan yang sepadan dengan bertanya apakah kita saling memberikan dampak positif satu dengan yang lain. Bukan hanya dia yang memaknai harinya tetapi kita juga haruslah memaknai harinya. Bukan satu pihak yang menyokong tetapi saling menyokong satu dengan yang lain.
Kenyataannya, jika boleh jujur, kebanyakan dari kita berdoa dan berharap mendapatkan orang yang tepat tetapi daripada pusing hal itu mendingan berusaha menjadi yang terbaik bagi pasangan kita. Percaya deh g ada Mr. dan Mrs. Right karena semua itu mengenai cara pandang kita, bisa tidak menerima satu dengan yang lain. Buat kita wanita cocoklah Amsal 31 itu (bisa g yah jadi kayak itu hehehe) dan buat para pria bagus tuh nerapin Efesus 5. Ya ya semoga bukan hanya baca, mengerti dan paham tapi bisa diterapin, amin.
Kenyataannya, jika boleh jujur, kebanyakan dari kita berdoa dan berharap mendapatkan orang yang tepat tetapi daripada pusing hal itu mendingan berusaha menjadi yang terbaik bagi pasangan kita. Percaya deh g ada Mr. dan Mrs. Right karena semua itu mengenai cara pandang kita, bisa tidak menerima satu dengan yang lain. Buat kita wanita cocoklah Amsal 31 itu (bisa g yah jadi kayak itu hehehe) dan buat para pria bagus tuh nerapin Efesus 5. Ya ya semoga bukan hanya baca, mengerti dan paham tapi bisa diterapin, amin.
Wah tambah kangen sama dia deh waktu nulis ini, senang dengar cerita dan senyumannya :p
I finally found someone, that knocks me off my feet
I finally found the one, that makes me feel complete
We started over coffee, we started out as friends
It's funny how from simple things, the best things begin
This time it's different, It's all because of you,
It's better than it's ever been 'Cause we can talk it through
Oh, my favorite line was "Can I call you sometime?"
It's all you had to say
To take my breath away
This is it, oh, I finally found someone
Someone to share my life
I finally found the one, to be with every night
'Cause whatever I do,
It's just got to be you, My life has just begun, I finally found someone,
Oh, someone I finally found someone,
Oh Did I keep you waiting, I didn't mind, I apologize,
Baby, that's fine, I would wait forever
Just to know you were mine, You know I love your hair,
Are you sure it looks right? I love what you wear,
Isn't it the time? You're exceptional,
I can't wait for the rest of my life , This is it, oh, I finally found someone
Someone to share my life, I finally found the one, to be with every night
'Cause whatever I do,
It's just got to be you, My life has just begun, I finally found someone,
Whatever I do, It's just got to be you, My life has just begun, I finally found someone
I finally found the one, that makes me feel complete
We started over coffee, we started out as friends
It's funny how from simple things, the best things begin
This time it's different, It's all because of you,
It's better than it's ever been 'Cause we can talk it through
Oh, my favorite line was "Can I call you sometime?"
It's all you had to say
To take my breath away
This is it, oh, I finally found someone
Someone to share my life
I finally found the one, to be with every night
'Cause whatever I do,
It's just got to be you, My life has just begun, I finally found someone,
Oh, someone I finally found someone,
Oh Did I keep you waiting, I didn't mind, I apologize,
Baby, that's fine, I would wait forever
Just to know you were mine, You know I love your hair,
Are you sure it looks right? I love what you wear,
Isn't it the time? You're exceptional,
I can't wait for the rest of my life , This is it, oh, I finally found someone
Someone to share my life, I finally found the one, to be with every night
'Cause whatever I do,
It's just got to be you, My life has just begun, I finally found someone,
Whatever I do, It's just got to be you, My life has just begun, I finally found someone
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